Wally Perrien: We have a very full house with 9 members including grandparents and cousins. We have talked to her about privacy, but that only seems to make her defiant and do it more often.
Walter Scordino: Where do i find out the law regarding teachers touching/ grabbing students?My daughter was in gym trying to skip and couldn't quite master it and was getting increasingly embraced about it, she is an emotional girl (just like myself) it's just part of her personality, she started to cry.The teacher shouted at her to stop crying, then shouted look at the boys they cant do it and they are not crying. Then she came up behind my daughter mid skip and grabbed her wrists from behind while her arms were raised and shook them. Shouting/ speaking harshly 'stop crying Erin'! My daughter was very up-set by this and said she was embarrassed and frightened. I went to speak to the head mistress but I know it's going to get played down and turned round on my child because she! gets up set easily. What are my rights and what can I do?...Show more
Alberto Kozub: public schools are ok, just they have to be in a good neighborhood
Blaine Connett: My kids have been homeschooled, private schooled and now their public schooled. They get along fine with any of it, actually. I did find they learned more homeschooled, obviously, because it was way more 1 on 1. However, as long as you go over homework each night and throw in some extra fun learning lessons they will get ahead. With mine, they help me cook (adding ingredients and reading boxes), we play word games in the car, we read to each other, make up stories (don't underestimate expanding the imagination of children!), they put on plays for me (which they write and act out) and I ask EVERY DAY if there was something they didn't understand in school so I can help them. If I don't know the answer- I find it.When they bring home papers, even if it's a B, if something is marked wrong we go ove! r it, so I can be sure they at least understand.Just be active! with your children's learning....Show more
Sol Bayn: You are doign whats best. Private schools are great IF you can afford it. While public schools do have problems, as long as you keep on top of her education and STAY INVOLVED, she will do fine.
Cliff Jacoby: IT'S NOT WHAT SCHOOL SHE GOES TO IT'S HOW MUCH SHE LEARNS. YOU ARE DOING A GREAT JOB BEING A STAY AT HOME MOM AND WORKING WITH HER. I WENT TO PUBLIC SCHOOL AND RIGHT NOW MY LITTLE SISTER IS IN PRIVATE SCHOOL AND I DO NOT SEE THE DIFFERENCE. I GRADUATED WITH A 3.0 GPA AND WENT ON TO COLLEGE. DON'T LET YOUR FRIENDS DISCOURAGE YOU ABOUT THE SCHOOL SYSTEM YOUR CHILD IS IN. I'M SURE SHE WILL GROW UP AND GO TO COLLEGE BECOME A DOC. OR LAWYER AND ALL YOUR FRIENDS WILL BE STANDING WITH THEIR MOUTH OPEN WHEN SHE DOES AND THEIR KIDS ARE SLACKING BEHIND. CONTINUE WITH WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK....Show more
Sharolyn Claybourn: because you have so many people in your home..i would say...one si! mple rule if she comes out she has on clothes that's the rule...
Dee Depung: bless her! dont worry about it! In my home which IS just mum dad and younger brother and older sister, all our children are quite naked. Our daughter of 7 also always sleeps naked but no harm in that loads of people do! She has a robe to wear in the mornings and i rpefer her to put it on before gpoing downstairs but she is allowed to walk freely around to the bathroom in the night naked...she is comfy to get changed in front of her grandad too - she giggles abit and is a little bit silly like if she was changing for a party but she does =nt mind! At school she changed in the classroom for pe right down to her pants and is quite happy. I am delighted she is confident and comfotabel in herself so please dont havea negative affect on your daughter, her body is nothing to be ashamed of around familiy members and people she is comfortabel around. She is young. When she is older she will start to g! ain a little modesty- my older daughter was the same she is 9 and still! happy naked around her family but she would not longer take pants off around anybody outside our household. My kids see me naked in bath/shower walking from bathroom to bedroom, trying clothes on, changing after swimming etc all the time dont make an issue out of something which really doesnt matter! Shes an innocent child, dont spoil it and dont punish her all you will do is crush her beautiful and vibrant personality! celebrate it! giggle about it! Ask her to please put pants on ebfore she goes down for breakfast or tv (thats what we do! )
Leif Serabia: some kids and adults have that habit. it's hard to break... but you could try gum. I wouldn't try an punish him. it's like a nervous habit that gives him some relief. EDIT: I think that's totally normal behavior and I wouldn't be too concerned with it. It will probably pass or get to the point where he doesn't put dirty things in his mouth. If it were my kid, I would let him chew the gum or plastic straw or whatever! clean thing you have, but make sure he washes his hands. I know getting sick is a pain for parents (my kid is in daycare and is sick all the time) but it's actually healthier for them in the long run that being too clean. it's unlikely he'll get something serious
Rayford Speziale: this is waaay too general. You have to factor in the age of the child, what exactly they've done that is so bad (from stealing a candy bar from a store to kiling another kid, there's kid of a lot of leeway) so asking for a general canned response about how to 'punish a child when they do bad' is as foolish as the general application of a 'one size fits all' punishment.
Clemente Schoeck: I'm new to this and i wanna make sure im doing the best for the child
Berry Gilmore: I went to a private school for my first seven years of school and I think she will be fine! You are doing the best thing and working with her at home. That may benefit her more than a private school, that is one ! on one. When I did switch over to a public school, it was a culture sho! ck but a much needed one. Public school is more like the real world, she will know how to get along and relate to many different kinds of people! You are doing right, it starts at home! GOOD JOB! Don't worry about what everyone says! You can't please everyone!...Show more
Willie Tun: I think I used to do that. Then my parents told me what about a fire alarm? You'll be freezing. That solved it.
Karl Jantzen: If you are teaching her to read and write she will flunk out of school due to all of the grammatical errors and misspelling in your question. It sounds like you need to go back to school. There is a spell check. Maybe they need a grammar check on here too!
Esteban Lyson: Well I think that is okay under the age of 5, but 7? I don't know. Maybe she just feels quite comfortable in her own home. Walking around nude in front of her grandparents, is a little weird. Tell her she has to put on clothes when she leaves her room. Or buy her really cute pajamas. Or! make her wear really short shorts and a tank top when she goes to bed. I used to walk around the house close to naked when I was like under 7. As I got older I realized how weird it was and immediately stopped. She will start to realize too. Give it time. If, she continues to do it over the age of 8-9 then I would get serious and consult a professional. Whatever the case, it's probably just a phase with her! :)
Betsey Copp: The best thing you can do is show an interest in school, which it sounds like you already do. Talk to your daughter about her day, what she learned, who her friends are, etc. Send your daughter to school well-rested, fed, alert and ready to learn (you probably already are doing this). Attend all parent-teacher conferences and let the teacher know you're serious about your daughter's education. Be a partner of the teacher, unless the teacher is a total jerk, then report them to the principal or school board. Emphasize the importance of homework and! help your daughter with it as needed. Provide the right environment fo! r her to complete her homework - good lighting, a little desk or table, help when she needs it, enough pencils, erasers, etc. Volunteer for activities with the school - be available to chaperone field trips or other special occasions. Many fine people have graduated from public school and gone on to college. It sounds like your priorities are in order, Just ignore the snobs in your neighborhood who think they're so much better than you because their kids go to private school....Show more
Clemmie Burkleo: By letting them experience the natural consequences of their actions (given that those consequences are safe for them to experience)
Oren Eskelsen: To ryan's mom, i do fine with spellings but write now i was in hurry so i was typing fast.
Raul Tllo: There is nothing wrong with putting your children through public school. I was in public school from Kindergarten until my Senior year of high school then I did home school for my Senior year. It is all up t! o you on where your children go to school.
Karl Jantzen: sometimes it depends on the environment of her schoolalso, if she has a will to learn =]
Frederic Engellant: Take her to a siechiatrist (Sp)
Frank Crummell: This would be considered an assault, i think. If your daughter was just just trying her hardest to do what the teacher asked, then that imbecilic teacher should be fired. I would go to the schools leader immediately and try to ge her fired! Sorry you had to go through with this!
Sonya Volcko: Hey really depends on what they have done and how serious it is. You could start with taking things away from them. I found a really cool resource to help me with this issue and it really works well. http://bestparentingtechniques.com
Bell Pasco: Power struggle ?. This is one of those defining moments were you are being tested. This is a hard one, I am wondering were she got the idea. You need to think back as to when it started and events that o! ccurred in that time frame.There are a lot of factors that you need to ! figure out in order to apply the proper solution so you don't cause emotional damage.You might want to ignore it for awhile, see if it dissipates. If not a consult with a professional for you, as the best course to take. Good Luck :)One more note on your update, I think she is looking to make others uncomfortable and force them out of the house, to spend time with her parents. Is this a possibility? She wants your time any way she can get it.
Delphine Cajka: Ok your problem is your associating her wanting to be naked around the house with a sexual thing. She's only 7 years old, and sees being her self being naked as her being free, she's not doing it so flaunt her body parts. Her walking around the house naked, doesnt indicate she will get herself in trouble with guys. I can see it being a problem if you have guests coming over, then yea she should be fully clothed. But if it's just her family around, theres nothing wrong with her being nude. I think she will grow out! of it in the next few years once her body starts changing, she will want her privacy. But right no she's just a baby, and wants to exert her freedom in a healthy way, just let it go for now. Good luck.
Ardath Templer: My 7 year old girl has gotten into the habit of sleeping in the nude. We are fine with this as long as she stays in her room with her door closed. But... she tends to come out several times (to get water, etc.), and refuses to put clothes on when she does. We have tried talking to her about it and asking her to put something on when she leaves the room. We have even bought her a bathrobe (which she will wear but not close. She is also starting to change her clothes with her door wide open. I'm worried that if this behavior doesn't stop then as she gets older she will get herself into a lot of trouble with guys.She already went through the typical naked stage during potty training. I thought we were done with this a long time ago....Show more
Fritz Hawkey: Just keep informed about what she's doing at school, ke! ep in contact with her teachers, and encourage her to ask for help when she doesn't understand something.I went to a public school and not all public schools are bad. I went to an EXCELLENT public school which was actually much better than the private schools in the area which were all religious schools and didn't teach certain subjects in an accurate manner. If your school is a good school then there's no reason to spend the money on a private school. Most public schools are very good, have good programs and good teachers. I think you're doing an excellent job saving for her college instead. Best of luck!Peace,Jenn...Show moreSolomon Belback: I got an excellent education in public school. It's not all about the school. First and foremost, teach your daughter that it's ok to try anything...not to be afraid of failure. Lots of kids shy away from difficult/challenging classes because of too much pressure from parents to succeed. Sometimes, it's the class that you ! fail that you learn the most from. All you can expect is her to do her best and accept what you get. Next, encourage her to ask questions. Finding out how and why things work and happen helps foster curiosity which can help her continue her desire to learn. As she gets older and has questions, teach her how to use books, internet, etc to do research to find the answers for herself. It's a great skill to have (a smart person does not have all the answers, they just know where to find them all). Find ways to make learning fun. When I was younger, we took lots of vacations to old forts (civil war, war of 1812, etc) and museums. We did other fun things too, but I really enjoyed seeing how things were back then. It turned me into a bit of a history buff. Mostly, just support her and love her and help her in anyway you can....Show more
Dalila Yoon: tell her if she comes out naked you will find a lock to put on her door un til she promises to put clothes on when she goes out!
Elvie Drumgoole: i know it is mean but when she comes out have s! ome of the many people in ur house laugh at hershe will be embarised and put clothes on
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